Self inflicit pain

There are times in our life where people say we are a mirror image of either one of our parents. The phrase that goes "You are just like your father!" or "You are just like your mother!". We hear it often, if it's not the excatly words it would be similiar to it.
I've grown up to have "You are just like your father!" words screamed at me. It wasn't until today, I really question and have a thought about it. Am I really like my dad?
As I was growing up, I am known never to look like any of my family members, like an outcast of the family. Growing up was never easy. Not in my position.
Dad and I do share certain traits together. Traits that I am proud to have, so those are the ones that I look up to.
It's hard for others to understand what we think or feel sometimes especially people who are close to us.
Reading back my post. I felt that it is getting personal.

*I just lost my mood to post*
I'm scared.
I fear.
I'm worried.
and I brought it all upon myself.
Yes I did.